When should you end a date?

Their pictures were hot and in walks Uncle fester and Morticia
When you meet up a at bar for drinks and they ask if you want to go to the parking lot to shoot up instead
When they ask who your parole officer is, just in case it is the same as theirs…
You go for dinner and not once have they looked up from their plate and only grunt to answer you.
They repeat to look around the room and ask “Are you sure we are not being followed”
During conversation the guy asks his woman “Exactly when was it, I got released from prison?”….and worse the woman replies “June of 2005 because it was three months after I got out”
When the guy asks you “Didn’t the Dr do a fantastic job?..You can’t tell that she ever had a penis.”
You arrange a dinner date with a couple and your mother walks in with her new boyfriend.
You arrange to meet for drinks and they bring their kids
You invite a couple to your home, things heat up, she undresses and has braided her pubic hair with little beads. (unless you like that)
You go to a couples home to meet and have dinner, and they get really jumpy when you ask what kind of meat it is.

Add some if you like……

Disclaimer: These are just a few we could think of, not everyone will agree and maybe some will find some of these a turn on

Are you Bi?

I would define it as (referring to my own thoughts)
Bi curious- In the heat of the moment playing with a woman is erotic and fun. Same sex play, much of being bi-comfortable, having the same sex play. You respond to different experiences in different ways, are open to options that present themselves.
Bisexual- you are attracted to the opposite sex and having sex with your own sex and of the opposite sex is a way of life for you….
There are many ways to describe what your preference may be…please share your thoughts.
From the wikipedia definitions:
Bi-curious is a term used to refer to someone who does not identify as bisexual or homosexual but feels or shows some interest in a relationship or sexual activity with someone of the same sex. The term can also apply to a person who generally identifies as homosexual but feels or shows some interest in having a relationship with someone of the opposite sex. The terms homoflexible and heteroflexible are also applied to bicuriosity.
Bisexual refers to sexual behavior with or attraction to people of both sexes, or to a bisexual orientation. People who have a bisexual orientation "can experience sexual, emotional, and affectional attraction to both their own sex and the opposite sex"; "it also refers to an individual’s sense of personal and social identity based on those attractions, behaviors expressing them, and membership in a community of others who share them." It is one of the three main classifications of sexual orientation, along with a heterosexual and a homosexual orientation. Individuals who do not experience sexual attraction to either sex are known as asexual.
According to Alfred Kinsey's research into human sexuality in the mid-20th century, many humans do not fall exclusively into heterosexual or homosexual classifications but somewhere between. The Kinsey scale measures sexual attraction and behavior on a seven-point scale ranging from 0 (exclusively heterosexual) to 6 (exclusively homosexual). According to Kinsey's study, a substantial number of people fall within the range of 1 to 5 (between heterosexual and homosexual). Although Kinsey's methodology has been criticized, the scale is still widely used in describing the continuum of human sexuality.

Sexual Attitude

Sexual Attitude

Are we messed up about sex? You put a group of people together and tell them to have sexual experiences with each other, but each person has been told, trained, influenced, all in different ways about this subject we claim to know so much about.

Where does our sexual attitudes come from? Obviously we are influenced by every day people, our media, our loved ones, definitely the people who raised us, so how much control and opinions are of our own?

In 1938, Alfred Kinsey began gathering case histories of sexual behaviour. In 1940, Kinsey and his staff collected over 18,000 interviews, and published Sexual Behaviour in the Human Male in 1948 and Sexual Behaviour in the Human Female in 1953. With all this research, people started to learn about sexual behaviour and where they stood among the masses. Introducing an ongoing exploration of our own sexuality, through out the times of change, have we strayed from asking the questions and just assuming that what we were taught or experienced, is just that of our own norm? Do we stay comfortable with what we know and leave it at that?

Sex, being a large part of our lives, when you think about it, does it not control how we think, feel, act and portray ourselves to others? Our sex, as in gender has separated us through eras. Our sexual preferences have us turning from one situation to another. Our sexual attitudes on a personal level influence how we deal with each experience. We could group our attitudes into like minds and bodies, we could bend a little and try the new thing, and we could very well accept those who wish not to journey with us to the new.

We all seem to be doing a lot about nothing, talking very little about what we want to share. We take our little attitudes and secret desires and sneak them into the corners of our lives, hoping someone will understand, make sense of and play along. It is not common to discuss fantasies with your mate, friends, co-workers, although done, how detailed and truthful are they. Have you asked your partner questions about sex? Is there the whole discussion? And if this happens, was this a comfortable thing to share?

As free as we are to express ourselves, do we express ourselves sexually without judgement? Society as a whole has us dancing through fire as it is, so keep your clothes on, your mind clean and don’t tell us what you are doing behind closed doors unless you are on Oprah and there is a scandal involved. In this day and time, is there the shush factor? Are we as open- minded as we think we are? Or do we have more to judge than times past?

We live with rules, laws, conditions and personal limits. With this massive subject, look into your own sexual attitude and how does it reflect and affect whom you are. Keep yourself as real and true to you as you possibly can, but allow the changes, the curiosity and enjoyment bring you to new levels of your life without letting go of your identity. Your sexual attitudes should never go stale and become a healthy place within your life.
Sometimes with relationships in your life, influence of ones own attitudes can be a good or bad thing. Open your mind and don’t judge those whose attitude differs, remember how the journey has differed from your own.

The Pin Up

Painted lips in red, cherry, pinks or cinnamon, a woman’s pouted soft lips express desire. Wrapped in soft silks, lace, feather boas, pearls and heels. Hair swept up in alluring curls, or draped in wisps on bare shoulders. Cheeks rosé and glowing, lashes embellished viewed in attractive waves. A woman seen by admiring eyes, the look she sees looking at her, as sexy and beautiful. When a woman feels sexy, feels beautiful, this is a pin up! Put some attitude or sensual, playful, controlled flirtatious boundaries and whole lot of sass, you will then have a pin up with sexitude!

Women through time have posed for pictures. The still portrait of their beauty captured for the world to view. As all women have the pin up girl within themselves, most do not share with the world. Feeling that way, the way that gives them the confidence to show off to the public their own beauty that they possess and could offer. That feeling is usually tainted and most times never nurtured. To express and appreciate what you own as a woman comes from within. As we compare ourselves to other people, guidelines and judgements we no longer possess that confidence and realization that we are sexy, hell we are women!!
As our society and media guide our lives, we also judge others and expect them to judge us. If the many magazines that have told you how to apply your makeup, how to eat, how to exercise, if they just told you how to be you, what would they say? We live through the lives and advice of others passing along the news. Keeping it real and controversial our lives forget how to take care of us as individuals without prejudice.
Becoming your own pin up girl: understand you, take away the outside world and realize what you offer to be sexy, beautiful and a great person. You are the pin up girl that gives inspiration to yourself so you may share it with the rest of us.
Claim your radiance, concentrate on your attributes, silence your critical voices and whisper this: My body is strong, vibrant and healthy; I am a masterpiece in progress. Love flows through every cell; I love and honor my body unconditionally.

With the tips of all the articles, all the advice, they are reference to changing looks, but you are already beautiful and a pin up girl, how you share it with the world is your choice and your power.

Food and Sex- Just don't rub it on yourself!

Good nutrition equals a good sex life

We all know that we should eat a healthy diet and there are many reasons to improve our diets. Here is another reason for having good nutrition in your life. A good sex life is or may be one of the top reasons for improving your diet.
Good nerve function, healthy hormone levels and an unobstructed blood flow to the pelvic area are essential to sexual performance. These systems improve with a diet based on legumes, grain products and other complex carbohydrates. The brain functions on the glucose energy levels these carbohydrates provide allowing one to enjoy sexual activity at new levels. The energy provided by complex carbohydrates also gives the body endurance to produce the movements and aerobics needed for a sexual experience.

We know there is a connection between mood and food, so getting in the mood and maintaining a healthy sexual appetite, food can be a great resource. Try adding plenty of fruits and vegetables and modest levels of protein, this will provides plenty of vitamins and minerals. Important is citrus fruits for vitamin C to strengthen blood vessels walls, low fat dairy products, enriched or fortified cereals and green vegetables for riboflavin to maintain the mucous membranes that line the female reproductive tract.

Healthy habits start in the kitchen and go to the bedroom.

These Herbs Increase Sexual Desire

American Ginseng increases Sexual Desire (in men).
Ashwagandha increases Sexual Desire.
Catuaba is claimed to increase Sexual Desire in males
Damiana improves Sexual Desire (in men with impairment in their Sexual Desire).
Ginkgo biloba increases Sexual Desire in people with reduced Sexual Desire resulting from the use of Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors
Gotu Kola reputedly increases Sexual Desire (according to folklore
Horny Goat Weed increases Sexual Desire

Korean Ginseng (1,800 mg per day) increases Sexual Desire (in males and especially in Male Impotence patients
Maca increases Sexual Desire
Marapuama (1,750 mg per day) improves Sexual Desire.

Savory reputedly increases Sexual Desire (due to it containing precursors for the production of Sexual Steroid Hormones) (according to anecdotal reports).
Tribulus terrestris is speculated to improve Sexual Desire (in both males and females) due to its (speculated) ability to increase the body’s endogenous production of Luteinizing Hormone (LH) which in turn stimulates endogenous Testosterone production.
Yohimbe increases Sexual Desire in men (due to its Yohimbine content).

Sexual drive is basically maintained by an active mind in a healthy body.

Main vitamins: Vitamin C, Zinc

According to Dr. Armelagoes, “The most important sexual organ and the best aphrodisiac in the world is the imagination.”

Female Masturbation

Finding your pleasure spot, female masturbation is self- pleasing and self- discovery.
Being in control of your sexual self. Explore your options with rubbing, penetration, water, fabric, toys, finding the G-spot, clitoral and anal.

Net Survey reveals:
Times per week you masturbate: 5 times is average
Embarrassed to talk about it: no 7 out of 10
Discuss with partner: yes 8 out of 10
Prefer toy or fingers: 50% toy 50% fingers
Fantasies when masturbation: other women, other men, movie stars, rough sex, kinky sex, husband, and threesome.

Masturbation can teach a woman how to reach orgasm. In Dr. Kinsey’s sample, only 4-6 percent of the women who masturbated were unable to reach orgasm through self- stimulation (a much higher percentage than reach orgasm through intercourse)
--The practical encyclopaedia of sex and health