Sexual Attitude

Sexual Attitude

Are we messed up about sex? You put a group of people together and tell them to have sexual experiences with each other, but each person has been told, trained, influenced, all in different ways about this subject we claim to know so much about.

Where does our sexual attitudes come from? Obviously we are influenced by every day people, our media, our loved ones, definitely the people who raised us, so how much control and opinions are of our own?

In 1938, Alfred Kinsey began gathering case histories of sexual behaviour. In 1940, Kinsey and his staff collected over 18,000 interviews, and published Sexual Behaviour in the Human Male in 1948 and Sexual Behaviour in the Human Female in 1953. With all this research, people started to learn about sexual behaviour and where they stood among the masses. Introducing an ongoing exploration of our own sexuality, through out the times of change, have we strayed from asking the questions and just assuming that what we were taught or experienced, is just that of our own norm? Do we stay comfortable with what we know and leave it at that?

Sex, being a large part of our lives, when you think about it, does it not control how we think, feel, act and portray ourselves to others? Our sex, as in gender has separated us through eras. Our sexual preferences have us turning from one situation to another. Our sexual attitudes on a personal level influence how we deal with each experience. We could group our attitudes into like minds and bodies, we could bend a little and try the new thing, and we could very well accept those who wish not to journey with us to the new.

We all seem to be doing a lot about nothing, talking very little about what we want to share. We take our little attitudes and secret desires and sneak them into the corners of our lives, hoping someone will understand, make sense of and play along. It is not common to discuss fantasies with your mate, friends, co-workers, although done, how detailed and truthful are they. Have you asked your partner questions about sex? Is there the whole discussion? And if this happens, was this a comfortable thing to share?

As free as we are to express ourselves, do we express ourselves sexually without judgement? Society as a whole has us dancing through fire as it is, so keep your clothes on, your mind clean and don’t tell us what you are doing behind closed doors unless you are on Oprah and there is a scandal involved. In this day and time, is there the shush factor? Are we as open- minded as we think we are? Or do we have more to judge than times past?

We live with rules, laws, conditions and personal limits. With this massive subject, look into your own sexual attitude and how does it reflect and affect whom you are. Keep yourself as real and true to you as you possibly can, but allow the changes, the curiosity and enjoyment bring you to new levels of your life without letting go of your identity. Your sexual attitudes should never go stale and become a healthy place within your life.
Sometimes with relationships in your life, influence of ones own attitudes can be a good or bad thing. Open your mind and don’t judge those whose attitude differs, remember how the journey has differed from your own.

The Pin Up

Painted lips in red, cherry, pinks or cinnamon, a woman’s pouted soft lips express desire. Wrapped in soft silks, lace, feather boas, pearls and heels. Hair swept up in alluring curls, or draped in wisps on bare shoulders. Cheeks rosé and glowing, lashes embellished viewed in attractive waves. A woman seen by admiring eyes, the look she sees looking at her, as sexy and beautiful. When a woman feels sexy, feels beautiful, this is a pin up! Put some attitude or sensual, playful, controlled flirtatious boundaries and whole lot of sass, you will then have a pin up with sexitude!

Women through time have posed for pictures. The still portrait of their beauty captured for the world to view. As all women have the pin up girl within themselves, most do not share with the world. Feeling that way, the way that gives them the confidence to show off to the public their own beauty that they possess and could offer. That feeling is usually tainted and most times never nurtured. To express and appreciate what you own as a woman comes from within. As we compare ourselves to other people, guidelines and judgements we no longer possess that confidence and realization that we are sexy, hell we are women!!
As our society and media guide our lives, we also judge others and expect them to judge us. If the many magazines that have told you how to apply your makeup, how to eat, how to exercise, if they just told you how to be you, what would they say? We live through the lives and advice of others passing along the news. Keeping it real and controversial our lives forget how to take care of us as individuals without prejudice.
Becoming your own pin up girl: understand you, take away the outside world and realize what you offer to be sexy, beautiful and a great person. You are the pin up girl that gives inspiration to yourself so you may share it with the rest of us.
Claim your radiance, concentrate on your attributes, silence your critical voices and whisper this: My body is strong, vibrant and healthy; I am a masterpiece in progress. Love flows through every cell; I love and honor my body unconditionally.

With the tips of all the articles, all the advice, they are reference to changing looks, but you are already beautiful and a pin up girl, how you share it with the world is your choice and your power.

Food and Sex- Just don't rub it on yourself!

Good nutrition equals a good sex life

We all know that we should eat a healthy diet and there are many reasons to improve our diets. Here is another reason for having good nutrition in your life. A good sex life is or may be one of the top reasons for improving your diet.
Good nerve function, healthy hormone levels and an unobstructed blood flow to the pelvic area are essential to sexual performance. These systems improve with a diet based on legumes, grain products and other complex carbohydrates. The brain functions on the glucose energy levels these carbohydrates provide allowing one to enjoy sexual activity at new levels. The energy provided by complex carbohydrates also gives the body endurance to produce the movements and aerobics needed for a sexual experience.

We know there is a connection between mood and food, so getting in the mood and maintaining a healthy sexual appetite, food can be a great resource. Try adding plenty of fruits and vegetables and modest levels of protein, this will provides plenty of vitamins and minerals. Important is citrus fruits for vitamin C to strengthen blood vessels walls, low fat dairy products, enriched or fortified cereals and green vegetables for riboflavin to maintain the mucous membranes that line the female reproductive tract.

Healthy habits start in the kitchen and go to the bedroom.

These Herbs Increase Sexual Desire

American Ginseng increases Sexual Desire (in men).
Ashwagandha increases Sexual Desire.
Catuaba is claimed to increase Sexual Desire in males
Damiana improves Sexual Desire (in men with impairment in their Sexual Desire).
Ginkgo biloba increases Sexual Desire in people with reduced Sexual Desire resulting from the use of Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors
Gotu Kola reputedly increases Sexual Desire (according to folklore
Horny Goat Weed increases Sexual Desire

Korean Ginseng (1,800 mg per day) increases Sexual Desire (in males and especially in Male Impotence patients
Maca increases Sexual Desire
Marapuama (1,750 mg per day) improves Sexual Desire.

Savory reputedly increases Sexual Desire (due to it containing precursors for the production of Sexual Steroid Hormones) (according to anecdotal reports).
Tribulus terrestris is speculated to improve Sexual Desire (in both males and females) due to its (speculated) ability to increase the body’s endogenous production of Luteinizing Hormone (LH) which in turn stimulates endogenous Testosterone production.
Yohimbe increases Sexual Desire in men (due to its Yohimbine content).

Sexual drive is basically maintained by an active mind in a healthy body.

Main vitamins: Vitamin C, Zinc

According to Dr. Armelagoes, “The most important sexual organ and the best aphrodisiac in the world is the imagination.”

Female Masturbation

Finding your pleasure spot, female masturbation is self- pleasing and self- discovery.
Being in control of your sexual self. Explore your options with rubbing, penetration, water, fabric, toys, finding the G-spot, clitoral and anal.

Net Survey reveals:
Times per week you masturbate: 5 times is average
Embarrassed to talk about it: no 7 out of 10
Discuss with partner: yes 8 out of 10
Prefer toy or fingers: 50% toy 50% fingers
Fantasies when masturbation: other women, other men, movie stars, rough sex, kinky sex, husband, and threesome.

Masturbation can teach a woman how to reach orgasm. In Dr. Kinsey’s sample, only 4-6 percent of the women who masturbated were unable to reach orgasm through self- stimulation (a much higher percentage than reach orgasm through intercourse)
--The practical encyclopaedia of sex and health

Sex noise

Sex noise

The moan of erotic pleasures heightens the senses. Never let your voice during sex be fake. To let your moans and groans happen naturally during sex can bring the mood higher into ecstasy. The communication between partners during intercourse will better your sex life. Allow yourself to express what you like, what you really like and what you absolutely love.

Sexologists have taken to using the term orgasmic fingerprinting to refer to each woman's unique and special experience during orgasm





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Online Love

By WiseWoman

Falling in love online can be as completely emotionally real as falling in love in real time. It seems utterly silly to think that we can give our hearts to someone we have never even met in person, and yet, it happens a million times a day on the internet.

When new to the internet, most are innocent people who venture into chat rooms or instant messages, with hopes of finding some stimulation for an hour or two, but when they get into chatting, they are possessed by a current and dragged down a river of virtual sensations that completely sweep them away. They are surprised when they notice the time and hours and hours have passed. And in not too long a time, they are addicted.

The human is such a gregarious being, that most of us crave deep emotional attention but haven’t figured out how to get it and keep hold of it in real time. Now, with this outlet for our psyches to feed and get nourishment, we are finding that our addiction is easy to justify and chalked off to the techno onslaught and being able to keep up with it. Even if we are not in love with anyone in particular online, we are in love with being online, knowing that we can get our fix, whenever we want it. Most of us have learned that when one online romance ends, our heart is severely broken, but miraculously we heal because another arises on the horizon in virtually no time flat….LOL.

Why is it so abundantly easy to fall in love online and what are the long-term results of such a development?

As we all know and have experienced, the Internet has given us a whole new way of life. The age of this new and ever-evolving technology has changed dating in a BIG way. Never again will people who have access to a computer, be lonely and ignored, even if they are shut-ins. They just have to turn on the pc, and whamo, the world is at their fingertips.

Once one has been online for a short amount of time, one realizes the intricacies of ”chatting.” Chatting is a dialect that has emerged from communicating on this venue, no matter what language it is done in. There are all kinds of hidden nuances of this form of communicating. A well-seasoned “chatter” can create and project any mood, any emotion, any feeling imaginable, with the combination of several different “cyber graphics,” “emoticons,” (the little smiley face icons), words, keyboard symbols (@#^*((( ))) !~), and acronyms (LMAO, LOL etc).

Chatting one on one in instant messages, is one of the ways to get to know a person, very personally. Something magical happens during this type of communication that seems to be unique to this venue. Especially if you are speaking to someone who is a romantic interest, it seems like you have a more direct connection to his/her psyche. How many times have I sensed the answer to a question or virtually read their mind? It seems to happen at an uncanny rate when in an instant message. Is it the electrical energy that is freely flowing from their pc to yours? If this online connection does something to our powers of exchanging thought, does this mean that we are developing a NEW sensory perception that has been latent in us but now coming to life?

Somehow, this new sense dominates our powers of perception and creates feelings, deep feelings, for some of the people we connect with online. Since we only have the written word and no other obvious audio or visual cues to clue us in on the chatters personality, we have to go on what we read, assimilate the meaning, and somehow imagine the person who is at the other end typing these words. We have to, in our minds eye, create a real person who we have no other information about except for what they have told us. We cannot see how they dress, how they maintain their weight, personal hygiene, how they laugh or smile, what their voice is like, what kind of car they drive or if they have a nervous twitch or have all their limbs. We simply have their written word. Most of us believe the other person to be telling us the truth, and because they are giving us what seems to be a unique look into their psyche, we develop a kindred ness with them that is very special. This dynamic is what makes us able to fall in love online so easily.

Most humans are basically the same. We want the opportunity to love someone, and have our love reciprocated. How we go about achieving that goal is what differs for each of us. So when we chat in instant messages or in chat rooms, we extend a part of our selves that may not normally be revealed in a person to person or “real life” scenario. Since we have no outside cues or distractions, it makes it easy for us to be totally honest, because we have nothing to lose by being so. In so doing, the connection between parties escalates at a rapid rate. The safety of extending ones emotional self across the cyber field seems to be almost unavoidable as well as incredibly fulfilling. The down side to this is that you might find yourself creating a fantasy of the person, which is totally unrealistic. This is generally what happens. Since there is no visual input for the mind’s eye to focus on, the brain has to assimilate the info, the input, and the sensory exchanges, and make enough sense of it to justify the feelings being felt.

There are a few “tools” that help us make further determinations. We might have a picture of the person, we might have heard the person’s voice on the phone, and we might have even be able to see them on video web camera, which overrides some of the data. If the intent is to actually “meet” this person for a date, it is important for our brain to collect as much data as it can in order for us to actually feel safe enough to meet face to face. BUT, and this is a big BUT, sadly many people never have any intention of ever venturing outside the confines of their safe little homes, in order to actually meet face to face. They are finding themselves making deep rooted connections with people online, and are getting themselves into trouble by either falling in love (without the capability to take appropriate action) or they are causing others to fall in love with them (thereby, breaking hearts, right, left and center when it has evolved to the “meeting” stage and one party has no intention of doing so). Sound familiar??

Pointers for protecting yourself in case of this happening to you:

1) Find out right up front if the person is seeking a real time relationship, or simply wants a virtual one. Many are simply filling time and have no intention on ever leaving the comfort of their own homes to meet you, no matter how close you feel you’ve become.
2) If you are considering meeting the person in person, make sure you clearly state this disclaimer: If, when we meet, one of us is NOT attracted, it must be made known, and all aforementioned plans or activities discussed are null and void.

3) Realize that people confide in you way more readily online, because they know they will never meet you, see you or otherwise find your knowledge of their secrets as any kind of a threat to them.

4) If you have met someone and you have both fallen in love online, realize that true love cannot truly be established until you find out whether you are in love in real time. Energy from online may not necessarily transfer, so be realistic, and save your self a lot of heartache. And don’t fall into the trap of saying “I love you” online if you haven’t met yet.

5) Realize that you are probably guilty of creating a “super” mate in your mind and that meeting with expectations is one of the major things that cause problems. If you go in totally open minded, with NO expectations, you can’t possibly be disappointed.

6) Lastly, don’t think that just because you fell once and failed, that every time will be the same. Keep trying, be REAL, and some day, you might find a keeper!!! .

©2003 Tami Fox. All rights reserved.

Pleasure thyself

They have always said to love yourself first, before others can truly love you.

The good thing about masturbation is that you don't have to get dressed up for it. ~Truman Capote

Sexual benefits of masturbation
Some of the known sexual health benefits of masturbation include:
• Solo masturbation is a safe sex practice that carries no risk of sexually transmitted infection and unwanted pregnancy. As part of lovemaking between two people, it is known as ‘mutual masturbation’.
• Sexual tension is released. Masturbation allows a person to express their sexuality by themselves and is valuable if, for example, they don’t have a partner or if sex with their partner isn’t available, or if they want to (or have to) abstain from sex for any reason.
• Being familiar with your own sexual responses allows you to better communicate your wants and needs to your partner.
• Masturbation is a popular treatment for sexual dysfunction; for example, women who don’t orgasm can learn by masturbating. Men who suffer from premature ejaculation can use masturbation to practice control.

Health benefits
Some of the known health benefits of masturbation include:
• Eases some of the symptoms of premenstrual syndrome
• Relief from menstrual cramps
• Muscle relaxation
• Helps you to fall asleep
• Promotes release of the brain’s opioid-like neurotransmitters (endorphins), which cause feelings of physical and mental wellbeing
• Reduces stress
• Enhances self-esteem.

Lies, all of it!
Almost everything negative that people say about masturbation is untrue. It is not true that masturbating means you’ve lost your virginity. Are perverted. Dirty, oversexed or sex-starved. Masturbation doesn’t cause madness, blindness, hairy palms, genital or kidney problems.

The Thrill

The warmth of erotic touches
The wetness of desires
The dew of exhilaration
The pressure of bareness
The heat of sweet tastes
The touch of silky motions
The thrill of pulsing muscles
The wild hunger of temptation
The enticing of lush folds
The lunges of intense bliss
The starved yearning of honey

The justified climax of satisfaction

Monastery Fire

As you can imagine growing up a convent, educated girl my life was always restricted. My parents protected me from boys and checked all my comings and goings.
I did not dare do anything “dangerous” although my dreams were vivid in sexual adventures.
I do confess that now I have since done things I would have been ashamed of back then but now I am proud of them. I love pushing my limits.
I now hang onto a favourite dream of mine that started after I visited a monastery on holiday and became wet when I saw some of the young monks.
As I lay me down to sleep, I drift into a world with my beautiful friend Chrissy. We do many things together and she is the perfect choice to wild adventure my dreams takes me on.

A storm brews on a remote island, Chrissy and I hold hands tightly as we enter a monastery. We are greeted by an elderly monk who proceeds to show us around the ancient building. The stone building holds secretes behind whispering walls. The storm pounds the outer walls; we are invited to stay the night.
After a meal of basic food, we are shown to a little room with two beds. We remove our wet clothing and put on the white plain T-shirts provided. Relaxing in our bunks, we chatter about some of the younger monks and wonder how they look naked.

Calming into sleep, I take a private moment to envision the naked monks before me. A crack of thunder brings me to reality and I can hear voices outside the room. Chrissy is sitting up in her bunk as we both listen to the sounds in the hallow hallway.
Curiosity takes out into the hall; we edge along a stone corridor lit by a deep glow. There is a room ahead where we can hear the voices. Suddenly we are pushed forward with powerful hands, stumbling through the door, we find ourselves in a vast chamber - lit only be candles.
Immediately, two monks tie Chrissy to a stone column. One monk holds me while another rips my t shirt from my body with savage force. Now both naked; thirty monks inspect us. With predatory movements, I am forced onto a low altar and tied to metal bars. One monk comes forward with a lit black candle and stands over me. He touches my pussy and slowly drips the wax over me - from my breasts down my belly to my pussy. He plunges his finger deep into my moist pussy.

Chrissy is bent forward, one monk holding her hair and another holding a flail. He starts beating her hard. I cannot call out and she smiles in pleasure. A young monk moves upon Chrissy with a smoking brand. Slowly he brands her on her thigh; the sound of flesh sizzling brings me unrelenting fear. In that moment, the same monk approaches me and holds the brand an inch away from my neck. In an instant without hesitation, he quickly thrusts it into my thigh. The pain is amazing - beautiful and terrible. I look down and see a mark on my thigh. An inverted cross. "You are now our possessions" an elderly monk calls out.



Two more monks approach me. One has a whip the other has a huge dildo on the end of a cross. He thrusts the dildo into me while the other whips my stomach. I am in pain but my pussy drips with an insatiable ache. Chrissy is crying and groaning. Two monks open their robes and force their huge erect cocks into her face. She sucks them both while another monk beats her back.
Removing the cross from my eager crease, the monk inserts his cock with a poison thrust of passion and sin. He fucks me while the other continues whipping. The storm has erupted and lightning spraying light onto walls.
Fear leaves me; replaced with a longing for more inflamed rapture.
The elderly monk comes forward - his robe open exposing his erect cock. He does not penetrate me. He takes two clips and opens my vagina wide with the clips. Then he masturbates into my pussy. Hot sticky cum shoots out of his cock all down my legs and pussy. Then the other monks gather round me and Chrissy masturbating while others continue beating us. We are covered in weal, bruises and hot semen. They untie Chrissy and me and throw us both together so we are entwined - naked - covered in spunk and whip marks. There is a huge roar of thunder and I and I pass out.

Written by Tori

A woman’s sexuality

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Have you ever picked up a book on women and sex? Learned about the mechanics, products, techniques and testimonies? Unless you have read the information available, you would have to start from scratch and discover on your own.
Men and women, both assume what life brings them is enough to get by, if you love someone things will fit nicely together. We all go through life changes, physically, mentally and learn new things everyday. In the bedroom, this is even more important.

An important part of a women and discovering their sexuality is self-gratification. If you have no idea how to please yourself, how be anyone else supposes to figure it out.
Now you know men will not wait for a women if he needs to “get off” Masturbation is considered normal for a man. So while he is having his little pleasure moments, why are women waiting for men to give them pleasure. And even then it is a hit and miss situation.

Discovering what makes you tick, the journey of knowing your pleasure points. Once the brain gets turned on, it sends your body into action and gets the juices flowing. Everyone enjoys different things and there’s no right way of going about it. Once you learn how to orgasm on your own, a whole new sexual world opens up for you to explore. Learning about yourself is trial and error but always take it with a smile on your face and enjoy.
Find your way and techniques, let yourself be daring and work it out. Relax; oddly, shyness, modesty and guilt seem to be just as inhibiting for men and women in private as they are in public. Let yourself go completely, switch off and make yourself comfortable.

Sex therapists like to say that good communication between partners is as essential to good sex as any other single thing. But the fact is that very few people really do know how to talk to their partners about sex.
“One of the most amazing things to us about sexual behaviour is how reticent most people are to talk with their lovers about sex… We see plenty of couples whose well-intentioned caresses fall short of the mark because they’re too much, too soon, too little, too late.” William Masters, M.D., and Virginia Johnson, of the Masters and Johnson Institute in St. Louis, have observed …The practical encyclopaedia of sex and health

Let’s talk about it; learning to talk, ask and learn more with your partner does not come naturally for most. But imagine the pleasure you achieve by a simple request to move to the left, or suggestion of movement that makes so much difference between just Ok to amazing. Our bodies, our minds, come together to make a very complicated map of feelings, desires and pleasures, if you are the only one who knows where the treasure is, sharing the joy is more difficult.

A woman needs to know herself before she can let others know what she wants and what she enjoys. Find your inner passions, dare to be self-pleasing, and share what you know.
It is not selfish, but known that you have to love yourself first, so others will know how.

Stimulation

Releasing my hunger, my mouth waters, I roll my tongue on my lips and bite my finger.
Only a few feet from me, he holds his cock in his hand, the wetness easing his strokes.
Hypnotized by his power to bring such pleasure to himself, my body weakens in overwhelming desire. I melt with his moans and increasing thrill. My thighs quiver and I feel the pulsing contractions inside me, lifting me into erotic drifts. Staring at his dripping cock, I can hear the moist strokes as they quicken. From the wanting sensations of my mouth straight down to my aroused wet lips, folding my legs to ease the frustration. My mind explodes in passion and suggestive thrusts sending me into an orgasm. Gushing in front of me I watch him cum and the room swims in sensual scents and the release of lust.

Sinful Indulgence

There is a little secret, you will have to be aware.
Taking little spaces to bring pleasure, I dare.
A little presence of passionate touch
I enjoy the erotic views very much

Allowing my desires to reach out
I show how pleasing it is without doubt
Feeling increased sensations to please
Melting in the moments with ease.

Riding waves of emotional bliss
Taking the sinfulness of this
Experience with me a delightful caress
Dance with me as we undress

Carry my dreams into real seasons
Pulsing reaction with sinful reasons
Indulgence of pure pleasurable time
Climax builds and thrills climb

Intense shared minutes pass
Sight, sound, touch surpass
Enlightened storming lust and desire
Releases the sinful seduction higher

Sinful Indulgence

There is a little secret, you will have to be aware.
Taking little spaces to bring pleasure, I dare.
A little presence of passionate touch
I enjoy the erotic views very much

Allowing my desires to reach out
I show how pleasing it is without doubt
Feeling increased sensations to please
Melting in the moments with ease.

Riding waves of emotional bliss
Taking the sinfulness of this
Experience with me a delightful caress
Dance with me as we undress

Carry my dreams into real seasons
Pulsing reaction with sinful reasons
Indulgence of pure pleasurable time
Climax builds and thrills climb

Intense shared minutes pass
Sight, sound, touch surpass
Enlightened storming lust and desire
Releases the sinful seduction higher