Squirting-- female ejaculation-- orgasm

Yes, there is a difference, yes, not all women have orgasms and yes, not all women squirt.
Sex no matter what position or in what situation is a mind thing, it’s all in your head.
The most provocative, most stimulating and the key component to a great sex life is your mind. You could have the most amazing physical contact and stimulation but if your head is not into it, you might not be getting all you can out of your sexual experiences.
As a woman, many things can turn our minds from enjoying sex as much as we would otherwise be capable of having.
I will start with squirting. What it is and my advice on how to get there
There are many theories about what squirting is, it has been tested not be urine, it has been seen on porn movies, it does exist. Usually women who have strong pelvic floor muscles will be able to experience this type of orgasm. Squirting is different from ejaculation because when you squirt it will “squirt” just like a hose into the air or where ever you may be pointed…
Because we spend most of our time trying to control body fluid, wind, waste and so on, letting ourselves actually squirt takes practice and patience. When I say letting ourselves squirt, it is actually that. If you are tense, are not familiar with the sensation that comes with squirting you would be apt to “not let” yourself take in the moment and release that passion that you will feel directly in your g spot. When you are about to squirt, you will get that twinge of wanting to urinate, we are trained as children, not to do that outside of a bathroom, so most women will not let themselves. You have to come to realize that you cannot urinate during such acts, and if you really think about it (maybe while you are sitting peeing) it is not the same at all. I find it hard to urinate right after sex because I am still enlarged, like peeing with a hard on—ask a man about that.
Once you have squirted, once or twice, you will find that you are able to orgasm this way in different positions and situations.
So how do I get there? The most common and maybe the easiest would be by inserting fingers into the vagina, high up. Fingers facing upward, do the “come here” motion with your fingers, sometimes quickly or just a smooth methodical motion would do. Give it all the attention while relaxing and feeling the sensations, if you like add some dirty talk. Drown in the moment, think of nothing else but how your body feels, how erotic and magical it is. Sometimes if you listen to the sound of wetness, building up this can be a total turn on. Use all your senses to drown and absorb the surroundings and the moment. When the climax reaches you, let it take over. Allow yourself to release and go with all the powerful sensations that your body inhibits.
Female ejaculation is an orgasm that is “wet” - you can gush or ooze creamy or clear liquid during an orgasm. The muscles should tense and actually push out the ejaculate.
Not all women will be wet during an orgasm; sometimes it is just the muscles involved. The clear distinction of a climax is the release of waves of pleasure but sometimes there is still no extra wetness involved with it at all. Although some women say they are not sure if they have orgasms, which if you are not sure then you must keep trying until you are very sure of it.

Not just the body is involved in an orgasm and for that matter the whole act. Set you mind to it, relax, go with the moment and enjoy.